L5TJXG: Hover/mouse-over: Use of this site —by DestinyArchitect

  1. L5U1B1: WELCOME! ☺  This site promotes & pioneers Social-technology™ based on science & love (Rules for Love so Love Rules™ and Humans, Play-God wisely™). This site is for anyone caring about romance, friends, love, family, community, getting along, playing & working together, social & work relations & relationships, values/morals/ethics/religion, and social issues between life-forms and especially between us humans! In fact, per "What's life worth without others to truly share it with?", this site encourages us to take our social aspects (indeed our Social-technology™) more seriously than we take our ever-dominating technical-technology! This site is “created & owned & copyright © by DestinyArchitect with all rights reserved, including no copying & no printing unless noted, except: • the latest version is available for free for public reading & comment at any time” at http://LoveRules.Info.
  2. L5N5LD: What are these codes such as “L5N5LD” on (the right-top of) this paragraph? They are my invention, part of next-generation Wikipedia I'm architecting. Each is an ID to uniquely & permanently name, point-to, link-to, find, and timestamp most anything:
    1. L5TM6L: Each gives a unique & permanent ID to most-every paragraph, section, & document. And many are also an HTML-anchor to the item (to the start of that item within the web page it's on); for instance, the URL ending with “#L5TM6L” (click it!) sends you this paragraph.
      L6SVUW: How to find an ID, say if a link containing an ID is broken: Find the ID (it could be in the name of the reference/link as “L5TM6L: ...”, or in the URL bookmark as “...#L5TM6L”, or in the URL filename as “.../l5tm6l.html...”) then just search for it (in these cases, search for “L5TM6L”): if you know it's a place is within the present web page, use your web browser's find (Ctrl-F); otherwise use say Google Search (yes, you can find the item even if it has been renamed and/or moved to another website!).
    2. L5TM9Q: Each is also a timestamp, encoding the date & time of the ID's creation which typically tells when its item was first spoken/written/created: I will be publishing a decoder.

INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info KQ32CS

Revision 745 -2010.08.07pst0319:  KSKDPQ: Intro.  This site is all about finding & sharing Rules insuring LOVE so love RULES!
–enacting comprehensive SOCIAL-Technology™ for today's “Brave New World”. 

KUIL85:  We humans are exponentially playing God with modern technologies & exponentially-increasing constant change; so we best Play God wisely™ and that means coming-up-with and catching-up-with matching SOCIAL-Technology™ to keep up with our explosion of TECHNICAL-technology everywhere.

  But, just to start with religion (which -at least historically- was our social rulebook), our major world religions haven't had an update to their religious scripts in over 2000 years (And they think they should never update, ostensibly being more sacred than even the US Constitution - perhaps why they increasingly seem our social rulebook historically). So think “Christianity & Islam version 2000” to keep up with Windows 2000 --Oops, I'm sorry: we haven't even gotten out of the first decade and year 2000 is already too late: Windows is now 3 versions past that!

KUIM55: The big picture is, in the last 100 years, and especially since the advent of the world-wide-web, we're experiencing exponential explosion of technical technologies which are radically changing the way we communicate and operate on a daily basis and even the way we socialize: Facebook, cell phones, call screening, spam, enormous metropolises, automobiles, nuclear power, instant world communications, condoms, contraception, and so much more: instead of new technologies being in use for decades if not centuries, now we just pray our phone won't get outdated before our two year contract is up!
  1. KUIN54:  These are radically changing the way we communicate & socialize:
    * It's become commonplace for young adults frequently Facebook,  and to spend more time on Facebook than actually facing the people which they so interestedly look! -WTF?!
    * And last week I went dancing with a lady who couldn't stop texting on her phone while we were dancing!
    Indeed, do to this technology, you can now can have sex with your monogamous husband while sexting to another man -- is that cheating?!
    * And let us not forget in 1980s it was impossible to screen telephone calls, and anyone in your family could answer it, and maybe that wasn't a bad thing --or is there still among us now someone who hasn't experienced their messages rudely not being returned, plus one else to oversee that rudeness and call the person on that?!
  2. KUINB0: And let us not forget "the love glove", as the problems get more serious.  Contraceptives & the condom gave us "free love", something that no life-form has had since the invention of sex 1 billion years ago.  And for the first about 50 years everything seemed improved (sometimes effects can take a generation or two).  But did you notice now broken families are the norm in America? And the majorities of marriages in divorce?  And as of about 2006 the typical adult in America is now NOT married?  All of that is true.  And, no, I'm not saying "down with the love glove" --it's not that simple, plus there are some secondary factors-- but we do need to fix this.  As you can't can't humanely introduce widespread technologies without expecting & introducing adjustments for their social consequences.
  3. KUINUP:  And it gets even more frightening.  Increasingly some of these things could destroy the planet: nuclear power led to nuclear bombs (actually first) giving us (at one point) the ability to kill every person on the planet about 5x over;  and now in around 2003 we're just wising up that all our cars and other fossil fuel users could trash our earth (though global warming and more) and maybe even kill much of us off, all before the century is over.
KUIO2D: And the above is just a sampling of the changes we've done. All told, I honestly don't think we humans are going to make it thru this present century (to 2100) --that is, without say at least 30% of us being unpleasantly killed (and by each other)-- unless most all of us start wisening up that these technologies we are now inventing like the latest fashion statement, plus other changes we are increasingly expecting of ourselves, are very dangerous in subtle especially-social ways we often don't immediately see, so we need to make adjustments.  These changes quietly & radically change our culture & how-we-interact in regularly dangerous ways.

KUIOWG:  But being a lover of technology, I am not saying to rid these new fangled-dangled inventions (and say we revert to being Amish). In fact I love technology so much it is what drives me: more than anything, I like doing the inventing (one might say "innovation" is my middle name) --in fact probably to a fault: the Amish have some point.

KUIPGR: But what I AM driven to do is, um, not entirely surprising: come up with MORE technology, “comprehensive SOCIAL-Technology™ for today's “Brave New World”  And I encourage everyone else so motivated to join in.  And About this site tells more on how. 
In short: -Play God but do it wisely.:-)

KQ5Z2W:  Contents (aka "site map")
  1. KQ5IRC:  About this site
    1. KQ5IAP:  Intro & Contents --this document
    2. KUFC6U:  Key theme: Don't casually mess w/ Mother Nature; accept & flow w/ her.

  2. KSKCA8: Good Stuff on Romance & Sex:
    1. KU1TOP: Romance-friends™ - romance form for the 21st century (~85% complete)
      1. KQ3UIF: The War of the Sexes" is BRED-in for a billion years! (~70% rebuilt) so
      2. we need modern solutions as notably romance actually based on friendship
        (see KQ3UJO: Friends-OVER-Romance!™ : "If you wouldn't do it to your friend, don't do it to your romance" (under reconstruction))
      3. KU7ZWA: "The" Jealousy (romantic selfishness) Gene in "everyone": anti-love, viral, & main cause of the-war-of-the-sexes.
    2. KUCJSL: Sex ONLY SAFELY: what all does "SAFELY" mean? KUCJ9X
    3. KU1XQ1:  Secondary Good Stuff:
      1. KUDAT3: One's Legal License for Sexual Activity –it's about time!
      2. KUF64F: RELIGIONS do marriage; STATES should only do civil unions!
      3. KU1SYK:  Ubiquitous Nudism is likely healthy & somewhat-important (under construction)

  3. Good Stuff on Religion
    1. KSKCDT: Unitarian Universalist YOUNG ADULTS! International (see especially the 1st chapter in Orange County,CA,US)
    2. KUH869: DO GOD(s) EXIST? Once clear-headed,probably best2think"No"
  4. KTR8YU:  Social Events
    1. KTR8ZU:  Good Parties
      1. KTR90R:  Meetup.com/BeyondBasecamp Car Camping Parties
  5. KSKCYL:  Still to Come:
    1. KQ5YYB:  three books worth of information from DestinyArchitect
    2. KQ5Z6Q:  and your posts, too!

KQ5ZAU:  Some Document History:
  1. 20090916pst1434: originally posted
  2. KQ564O:  Document Writely source & dest.  named[INTRO & TABLE-OF-CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info KQ32CS]
  3. KSKD5G:  Set post date to 10 years in advance to to force this to always be the first post in the blog so always come up on the main page.
  4. KUHGZN:  Added 3x more articles; added a photo for most every article; renamed photos for most every article.  Named to[INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info KQ32CS]; posted 2009.12.11pst0336.
  5. KUIR2D:  Wrote full motivational intro starting with 2nd paragraph, also incorporating the text removed from site title and description ; reposted 2009.12.11pst1906.
  6. KUIUXO:  Renamed to[KQ32CS(INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info)] per the new naming convention.
  7. L6S0A6: Rename from[KQ32CS(INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info)] to[INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info KQ32CS]
  8. L6S1XZ: Fixed all photos so clicking on each brings to source, and removed each "." reference for the photo (prior saving this as a link).
–above article INTRO & CONTENTS of LoveRules.Info KQ32CS published at official URL: http://Blogger.LoveRules.Info/2009/09/kq5eah.html


  1. First looked at jotHere, saw black screen, thought DOS .02. It scared me. Thank god, found "Love Rules." Want to talk to god ... will call, Charlie
    P.S. Much trouble to jot comment.

  2. Dear redcharlie, God here ;-)
    *Very funny comment! You're so witty! Even more than me typically when I SMS gals as a single guy; if u don't mind me being a bit raw, u cd be catching yourself some tail with that tounge ;-)
    *Your feedback is valuable, esp. given, as I mentioned, http://1.JotHere.com is in alpha so we need feedback like this.
    *I'm guessing you found this site from entering http://JotHere.com and seeing that redirects to http://1.JotHere.com which redirects to http://2.LoveRules.Info so then tried http://LoveRules.Info and got redirected to this here http://blogger.LoveRules.Info , but this is an outdated site (the content is still valid, but is being moved to much superior technology WordPress): to understand why you're seeing LoveRules when you entered JotHere, I just wrote u (& others) (http://LoveRules.com merging & evolving into http://1.JotHere.com http://1.JotHere.com/2764#M22OUT )
    *"black screen" (of JotHere.com)- yes, that's debatable, but intentional after considerable thinking: see & post comments on http://1.JotHere.com/717#LXNPQ5 , including, if you still don't like it (as it still reminds you of "DOS", and that's still a bad thing), see (the comment there on overriding the theme choices http:/1.JotHere.com/717#comment-194 ).
    *You write "Much trouble to jot comment." but that's this site Blogger which we're moving off of as that details, so I'm not worried about fixing it. On WordPress it's easy, to both comment & post (I do it all day) once one has simply created an account, and on that note:
    *Most important of all, give 1.JotHere.com a spin. Yes, there's plenty to read about it, but nothing compares to actually using it, especially it only takes 5min to get started and really give it a try: so please just do (create an account on 1.JotHere.com http://1.JotHere.com/2741#M1PJMK ) --I'll be here to answer your Qs; indeed:
    *Hope you've found these answers complete!